Imagine this situation: you are in a bar, sorrounded by friends, and you suddenly see, from distance, a hot chick. Typical situation, isn't it? You lose interest in what your friends are saying, and the world becomes small and small, being populated by one only person: her.
The mind flashes around thinking about the right pick-up line. What about : "hi"? Obnoxious. That's a cool word, I know. Not sure about the meaning, but the word obnoxious really express the difficulty of the moment you're in. You keep thinking, but you stop DOING. And you don't realize that.
Now, only two things can happen: another (surely hotter than you, not that this is difficult) guy does instead of thinking and talk to the very same girl. Or, worse, you spend the night wondering about her, while nobody talks to her, and she finally goes away. Seems familiar, isn't it? To me, at least. What do you lose? Are you afraid of happiness? I think so.
Focus, focus on me! Keep your eyes on this text!
Are you afraid of the refusal? You know what she is losing, but she doesn't know what she is losing. You may be ugly, but you may also be hiding some (very) hidden features that she'd love. She'd never know. Doesn't this make you feel special? If you don't think you have anything special, you are just obnoxious, exactly like saying the word "obnoxious". What's the purpose of not trying? Going back home and thinking, oh yeah, next time I'll do it?
Come on, next time she or whoever else will be attracted by some other male belly dancer while you, poor kind-of-a-special thinker, will face the same situation.
Don't wait for a signal that will never come. You have to create the signal, to have the chance not to be obnoxious, and to be awesome, as the word "awesome" is.
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